On the Internet

Ahh, the Internet.

When Obi-Wan said about Mos Eisley, "You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. We must be cautious.", we can think of this as a simple failure of imagination.   (read more...)

Meditation #1

Embrace and breathe.

Lay each line by holding her in an embrace, and leaving the line under tension when your arms are removed so that the embrace doesn't end.

Embrace and breathe.

Let your breaths mingle and linger, let the heat and flow be felt, and the motion heard and seen, eye to eye, pupils dilating, blood flowing, life sharing.

Embrace and breathe.   (read more...)

A Path

There is a path that I seek.

I have oft repeated the mantra that I am not a douchebag, yet I have failed to adequately explain exactly what that means, even to myself.

The problem, you see, is that behavior that might be traditionally seen as epitomizing that of a douchebag is sometimes, depending on the context, completely appropriate. This dichotomy is both obvious and yet difficult to define in the context of BDSM, especially during edge play.   (read more...)

At Play Parties

I know you're excited. So are we.

The stuff we do is fun, different, sexy, and sometimes even illegal. It's designed to elicit a strong reaction, so of course it's exciting.   (read more...)


There are inherent dualities to tying a person.

With shibari, I've experienced the controlled precision of the tie versus the excitement of the power exchange, the constriction of the body versus the freeing of the mind, the warmth of the embrace versus its unyielding nature, the beauty of the lines and forms and body assembled versus the discomfort and pain of a stringent position, and of course, the power versus the responsibility.   (read more...)

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